Seeking Signifigant Others

I'm not "looking" for a boyfriend or husband. I'm looking for good people to have in my life, and eventually, I imagine, I'll look at one man who is my really good friend and realize he has become so much more to me. I think people get in trouble when they start "looking" for a soulmate. Not to say I don't keep my eyes peeled, but it's not my focus.

**From an email I wrote earlier to someone who asked me what I was "looking for" in a man.**